Veteran Nollywood actor, Richard Mofe-Damijo, better known as RMD, has lamented how he has severely suffered relationship abuse from those he gives easy access to his personal life.
RMD who is a former Commissioner for Culture and Tourism in Delta State explained why people must be careful in whatever relationship they choose to have with people because such relationships have the capacity to make or mar a person.
He said these why explaining why he is not quick to accept to be people’s mentor or enter into a somewhat ‘fatherly’ role relationship with many.
He wrote:
“I NEVER TAKE IT LIGHTLY WHICH IS WHY I’M USUALLY NOT QUICK TO JUMP IN ON MENTORING, ‘FATHERING’ OR BEING A BIG BROTHER FIGURE BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN A VICTIM OF “RELATIONSHIP ABUSE” WHERE PEOPLE TAKE THEIR UNLIMITED ACCESS TO YOU FOR GRANTED FORGETTING THAT – RELATIONSHIP IS A CURRENCY.
RELATIONSHIPS IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT TYPE HAVE THE POWER TO SERVE AS A CAPITAL.
THERE ARE RELATIONSHIPS THAT GIVE YOU LEVERAGE, SOME PEOPLE HAVE GOTTEN AHEAD IN LIFE BECAUSE OF WHO THEY MARRIED, WHO THEY WORK/ED WITH/FOR. ONE RESPECTED PERSONS ENDORSEMENT COULD DO MORE THAN FINANCIAL CAPITAL CAN, SO IT IS IMPORTANT NOT TO ENTER INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE INTENT OF GIVING NOTHING IN RETURN, THERE’S NO WAY THAT WOULD WORK, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO SERVICE WHATEVER RELATIONSHIPS YOU HAVE.”
